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As soon as you both can recognize those issues, you then make pledges and dedications to each other to meet each other halfway and repair those problems together.
Showing some effort will let your other half understand that you wish to do your part and not just depend on them to do whatever.
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It is not healthy for anybody to lie in a relationship.
As the community gets larger and larger the material out there gets better. It will still be tough as the issues that made you divided in the very first place, danger to be ever present, if you can not bring some modifications.
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Ensure the person actually appreciates other individuals.

Disagreements are bound to take place at some stage or the other but you have to comprehend that thee disagreements is exactly what is providing you a chance to get closer. Caution - do not offer up your own identity.